Girls, maybe the entire world is against you but there is only one person in this whole world that will be with you whole life, through all your triumphs and downfalls, through your mistakes and your success and that one person is YOU! It’s such a pity if without realizing it; you say such unflattering things about yourself. The worst part about it that you say it in front of others! Here are the list of things which you should never ever say about yourself and start following it right away.
1. I am not a confident person
No matter even if it’s true you should you should never say in front of others! The world will take advantage of you thinking that you are weak and you might not stand up for yourself. If you feel you lack confidence, try and work on this from now on. The next time don’t step back when asked for your opinion, don’t hesitate. Lacking confidence and being quiet won’t get you that promotion or the life of your dreams for that matter!
2. I cry very often
By accepting that you cry often, you are giving away too much of information about your personal life or state of mind. Most people will pretend to give you fake sympathy towards you, but in their minds, they will probably dismiss you as someone who is “not strong”. Well we all cry sometimes which is not a big deal. It’s really nothing to worry about. Don’t take life so seriously, no one gets out alive anyway!
3. I can’t carry off most clothes
Women, ALL the women have this weird habit of being self – depreciative as a form of humour. By doing this you put yourself down in front of others for just trying to be funny or cute. You should STOP doing this right now! You can carry off whatever clothes you want to carry off as long as you’re comfortable in them.
4. I hate my body
Great, body-shaming yourself! There are millions of women around the world campaigning for brands and companies to stop body-shaming us, and here you are doing it to yourself?! Why, really? You need to love yourself for what you are.
5. I doubt any guy would really like me
You are putting it out there for the world to know: that you are not worth loving. This is absolutely very silly thing to do! Firstly, you were certain that tons of great guys were interested in you. And if you still feel that then it is a major issue, you need to find ways and work on yourself. Remember, we all work constantly in progress. Maybe you might be shy around guys, but there is absolutely no reason to make such a bold statement. Boys love confident women. So don’t ever say that again.
7. I hate my family
It’s the real-time talk again. Almost everyone thinks their family is dysfunctional which is not true always! It’s really nothing you go and announce to the world. Remember, no matter how they are, at the end of the day, they ARE your family. You need to love and respect them. No matter how mad you are at them, avoid talking about family matters to people at large. Don’t post stuff about family issues on social media, and don’t discuss or seek an advice about it to anyone that you don’t trust completely.
8. I get affected by what people say about me
The trick to have a happy life is to not attach much value to what others think and say about you. It’s quite certain that you know this already, but it’s really high time you practice it too. It’s natural, as human beings we all get affected by things said to us. Isn’t it normal that when someone passes a remark or a snide comment we get all riled up and angry? But to go and admit to the world that you indeed get affected you are actually inviting trouble for your own! Just believe and say yourself that u really don’t care what random people think about you.